TIPS TO BRING A TWIST TO YOUR OLD HOME

Shouldn’t your home reflect and what you love?

Your house speaks louder than your expressions. It definitely talks a a lot of your ideology, your customs, your behaviour and also the mannerism.

I would like to share a few tips that can help you revive your old home without much investment.

And yet look very attractive and welcoming for the guests.

Below mentioned are a quick and small tips that can help you make a better experience at home.

Expression wall

Think of a corner or wall in the house where you can hang the pictures of all your loved ones. Different expression and different incidents which have brought new and fresh memories in your family can be beautifully elaborated in that space of home.

 

Art wall

Art can be a very personal choice. Express yourself either in the form of photographed picture or in the form of an art on one of the wall of your home. If you are an artist yourself, use that wall as a canvas to create your masterpiece. It’s your home therefore forget about the judgements.

If your child is an upcoming artist too, you should motivate him/her by making frames of their art on the wall of their room.

 

Go green

Fresh green leaves and fresh green colour in your drawing room can bring a lot of freshness when you enter your home. Clinically it can help you overcome a lot of medical issues like depression, stress, cold etc due to its property to purify the air with lots of oxygen.

Just remember not to keep plants in your bedroom as in the nights the properties of plants are to take in oxygen and give out carbon di-oxide and this can be a little suffocating while sleeping.

Lights…. Drama and action.

The twist in the décor of your house can be done with an exquisite piece of a lampshade or a light piece.

Just by changing the colour of your lampshade you can completely create a difference in the complete dressing of your house. Something like a crystal chandelier or a black piece of lamp can bring loudness to your dead room.

 

Switch from your regular lamp.

On some of your special dinners and occasion light up your house with some special pieces of candles.

You can bring a lot of romance and excitement with just few candles. To add some more life light up the aromatic candles along with the music of your choice.

  

Pot in the potpurri

It helps in warding off the unpleasant smell  and germs from the house. It brings in lots of freshness at home,  while it also brings a lovely fragrance to you house. Imagine the smile on the face of your visitors when they walk in your house and are welcomed by a wonderful fragrance and a warm smile from you. You bet to win them at the doorstep.

 

Dine with seasonal  flavours

You can keep an attractive bowl on your dining table with some seasonal fruits. The more colour to this decoration can be even more attractive.

Create an Oasis

Treat yourself with a spa treatment in your bathroom. Organise your toiletries in a very interesting manner, buy some fabulous overscale towels and colour co-ordinate them with your bathroom décor. Some potpourri, some small plant or few small lit candles can bring a spa come alive.

Rotate your accessories

Keep changing your throw pillows, bed spread very often. Everytime you can make a difference in the statement of your house by these minute changes. If you can keep a second set of few statement pieces that can change as per your home décor it can add a little more interest. Off course the cutleries also make an impressive statement.

 

Mirror drama

Find an antique mirror for your special place. Either near the dining area or your dressing room. The beautiful and vintage look of the mirror helps in hiding the fine lines and wrinkles on your face.

 

Carpet it

A color co-ordinated carpet in your room can add an extra warmth. It feels and looks great to see the house complete with a warm and soft carpet which helps pamper your feet when you walk around.

 

And finally

Sparkle and shine

Clean your house and polish it with to sparkle with shine.

Pure and clean house will make you feel that you have accomplished something.

OVERSHOPPING A SYNDROME OR THERAPY!

Have you ever thought about the reasons for overshopping?

In the past few years i have seen a very drastic change in myself in terms of shopping. Offcourse clothing and fashion has been an integral part of my life since I started to understand what fashion is all about.

I used to think I shopped because I loved clothes and fashion, but I’ve come to understand there is a lot more to it than that.  Many psychologist have proven that being a compulsive shopaholic can go much deeper than just a passion for style.

According to me these could be some of the reasons for overshopping…..

Depression

I think we all go through this phase of depression at some point of time in our lives. And you want to just sit with the feeling of sad and being unhappy. At this point of time if you land up shopping, yes it will definitely help to uplift the mood, at least temporarily. In fact it send the person to an altered state of mind not unlike the high one gets from alchohol or any other drugs. And in this high we tend to overshop without thinking if what we nought is really our necessity.

Loneliness

Despite of a growth in social media and many other ways to be connected with your friends and family, many of us suffer from loneliness and lack of connection. It is a feeling of being left alone within a huge crowd. And shopping can be the best friend to fight against this loneliness, when you visit you mall you tend to see a lot of people around you. The friendly sales team is at your service to help you look better and make you feel less lonely. And this nice gesture of those sales people can lead you to shop things which are not required and not in your wishlist at that moment of time.

Boredom

This is my personal experience, when I don’t have a lot going in my life, I find myself taking small trips to the nearby malls. Its like a crime to even log on to the internet in such times, as the e-commerce websites have such lucrative offers which are just irresistible and you again land up shopping for no reason.

Low Self-Esteem / Insecurity

Most of the people around struggle with the low self-esteem and feeling of not being “good enough like XXX”

In order to look better, we try wearing different styles and cuts. We try the brands which are bought by your friends and families, in this bargain we land up buying clothes which are not required and not necessary.

As every dressing you tend to receive a feedback. If dressed better it always follows with compliments and validation from others. But if that bought dress does not look so receive any special compliments it keeps lyeing in one corner of your closet forever.

Poor Body Image

All of us want to look pretty, thin and in shape. Some people refrain from shopping for clothes when they have gained weight or feel bad about their bodies.  For me, the opposite has been true.  When I feel unattractive or fat, I shop in the hopes of finding those “magical” clothes that will provide me with positive feelings about my body.  In essence, a person is shopping for a feeling more than for actual clothing, but any improvement they receive in their body outlook is just temporary.  For this you must know your body shape and style that looks best on you.

Peer Pressure

This is the regular phenomena in the teenager kids. Style keeps changing every now and then and these kids want to upgrade and update themselves with the trends by shopping the latest version of that clothing.

When women move out with their family and friends they land up shopping more than what they would shop by themselves. We often end up buying too much or we purchase things which really don’t work for our lifestyles or personal style aesthetic.  In addition, if our friends are buying lots of trendy new items, we don’t want to miss out or appear lacking in terms of style quotient.

Pls share your thoughts on this syndrome of over shopping….